{"id":16496,"date":"2022-02-07T07:32:07","date_gmt":"2022-02-07T00:32:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rdi.edu.vn\/?p=16496"},"modified":"2022-02-07T07:32:08","modified_gmt":"2022-02-07T00:32:08","slug":"su-khac-biet-trong-van-hoa-giao-tiep-giua-nguoi-viet-va-nguoi-my","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rdi.edu.vn\/index.php\/2022\/02\/07\/su-khac-biet-trong-van-hoa-giao-tiep-giua-nguoi-viet-va-nguoi-my\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t trong v\u0103n h\u00f3a giao ti\u1ebfp gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Giao ti\u1ebfp lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 cho s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t s\u1ebd l\u00e0m m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a qu\u1ed1c gia n\u00e0y v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a qu\u1ed1c gia kia v\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu trong vi\u1ec7c th\u01b0\u01a1ng thuy\u1ebft c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c trong n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, c\u00e1c \u1ee9ng x\u1eed trong giao ti\u1ebfp d\u1ea7n c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t to\u00e0n c\u1ea7u h\u00f3a tuy nhi\u00ean n\u00e9t \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng c\u1ee7a phong c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp \u1edf t\u1eebng qu\u1ed1c gia v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t th\u00fa v\u1ecb.<\/span><\/h3>\n

D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ba \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t trong v\u0103n h\u00f3a giao ti\u1ebfp gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9.<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. Ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 l\u00e0m quen<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Vi\u1ec7c ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9, t\u00f9y theo t\u1eebng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u00e0 \u1edf M\u1ef9 c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi kh\u00e1c nhau, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd ch\u00e0o nhau b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 r\u1ea5t g\u1ea7n g\u0169i nh\u01b0 \u00f4m hay h\u00f4n m\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft. V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 giao hay trong vi\u1ec7c kinh doanh h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ch\u00e0o nhau b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i b\u1eaft tay. Trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kinh doanh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 r\u1ea5t coi tr\u1ecdng vi\u1ec7c b\u1eaft tay v\u00ec h\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i b\u1eaft tay lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00e0o nhau l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 v\u0103n minh nh\u1ea5t.<\/span><\/p>\n

    \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi Vi\u1ec7t Nam \u2013 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u n\u00e9t v\u0103n h\u00f3a \u2013 m\u1ed9t n\u01b0\u1edbc \u00c1 \u0110\u00f4ng, ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t c\u00f3 c\u00e2u \u201cL\u1eddi ch\u00e0o cao h\u01a1n m\u00e2m c\u1ed7\u201d \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 n\u00e9t ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 v\u0103n h\u00f3a ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi. C\u00e2u ch\u00e0o lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t coi tr\u1ecdng trong giao ti\u1ebfp, n\u00f3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft v\u00e0 th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 trong giao ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n. L\u1eddi ch\u00e0o c\u00f2n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ednh hi\u1ebfu kh\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t. Tuy nhi\u00ean ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n kh\u00e1 coi tr\u1ecdng th\u1ee9 b\u1eadc giao ti\u1ebfp trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00ean c\u00e1ch ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi c\u0169ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p h\u01a1n t\u00f9y theo m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m quen, t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 kh\u00e1 tho\u00e1ng trong vi\u1ec7c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u1edbi, c\u1edfi m\u1edf h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1ea5t khi l\u00e0m quen v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9.<\/span><\/p>\n

    T\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7t Nam, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u1edbi h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u00e0o nhau \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 khoanh tay hay g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 b\u1eaft tay \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi quen. Vi\u1ec7t Nam hi\u1ec7n nay \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 du nh\u1eadp v\u0103n h\u00f3a n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do, m\u1ea1nh d\u1ea1n h\u01a1n trong vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m quen nh\u1eefng nh\u00ecn chung v\u1eabn c\u00f2n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ng\u1ea1i ng\u00f9ng v\u00e0 b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tho\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ea1t trong giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9<\/span><\/p>\n

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    1. C\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      \u1ee8ng x\u1eed n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng. N\u1ebfu giao ti\u1ebfp bi\u1ec3u th\u1ecb s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, quan t\u00e2m, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c gi\u1eef g\u00ecn, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed v\u0103n h\u00f3a. Giao ti\u1ebfp n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 r\u00f5 n\u00e9t nh\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 l\u1ecbch thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tinh t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/span><\/p>\n

      Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen th\u00edch s\u1ef1 n\u00e1o nhi\u1ec7t n\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi v\u00f4 t\u00e2m trong vi\u1ec7c \u1ee9ng x\u1eed n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 n\u00e9t v\u1edbi ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ed1 \u0111i b\u1ed9 hay nh\u1eefng qu\u00e1n \u0103n, qu\u00e1n n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f4i khi ta l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 n\u00e1o nhi\u1ec7t t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng b\u1edd k\u00e8 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng con s\u00f4ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

      \u0110i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 r\u1ea5t gh\u00e9t vi\u1ec7c g\u00e2y \u1ed3n \u00e0o \u1edf nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng ri\u00eang t\u01b0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i mang t\u00ednh trang nghi\u00eam nh\u01b0 b\u1ea3o t\u00e0ng, \u0111\u00e0i t\u01b0\u1edfng ni\u1ec7m hay gi\u00e1o \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, ngay nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i nh\u01b0 nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng hay qu\u00e1n \u0103n h\u1ecd v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 vi\u1ec7c \u201c\u0103n nh\u1eb9 n\u00f3i kh\u1ebd\u2019\u2019 v\u00e0 khi c\u1ea7n g\u1ecdi nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 h\u1ecd v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 tinh t\u1ebf v\u00e0 l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 trong giao ti\u1ebfp khi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 ho\u1eb7c \u00e1nh m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh.<\/span><\/p>\n

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      1. Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m \u01a1n<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        N\u00f3i theo t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac theo ki\u1ec3u \u201cru\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec3 ngo\u00e0i da\u2019\u2019 vui bu\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n qua g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t v\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. Theo \u0111\u00f3, ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 vui bu\u1ed3n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Nh\u01b0ng Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng che \u0111\u1eady nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i ni\u1ec1m \u1edf trong l\u00f2ng, kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u1ea5y; b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i th\u00ec vui v\u1ebb, t\u01b0\u01a1i c\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng b\u00ean trong s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m c\u00f5i l\u00f2ng th\u00ec \u0111ang r\u1ea1o r\u1ef1c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n s\u1ebb chia.<\/span><\/p>\n

        Ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n v\u00e0 xin l\u1ed7i t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed7i quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y. Trong giao ti\u1ebfp th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i xin l\u1ed7i hay c\u1ea3m \u01a1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i M\u1ef9, h\u1ecd xin l\u1ed7i khi ch\u1ea1m ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 c\u00e1c va ch\u1ea1m giao th\u00f4ng,\u2026 \u1ede M\u1ef9, quan ni\u1ec7m xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi can \u0111\u1ea3m, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00e1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi \u0111a s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t th\u01b0\u1eddng xem vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i xin l\u1ed7i l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng g\u00e2y t\u1ef1 \u00e1i cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/span><\/p>\n

        B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i \u201cxin l\u1ed7i\u2019\u2019 th\u00ec c\u00f2n m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i M\u1ef9 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta hay b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng khi giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi h\u1ecd \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m \u01a1n, h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m \u01a1n m\u1ecdi l\u00fac, m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t nh\u1ea5t, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i h\u00f2a v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y, trong khi \u0111\u00f3 v\u0103n h\u00f3a ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t l\u1ea1i mang \u0111\u1eadm n\u00e9t \u0111\u1eadm ch\u1ea5t b\u00ed \u1ea9n c\u1ee7a \u00c1 \u0110\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng \u00edt b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i khi giao ti\u1ebfp, Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t th\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u1eef s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft \u01a1n l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 c\u1ea5t gi\u1ea5u \u1edf trong l\u00f2ng m\u00e0 ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m hai t\u1eeb \u201cc\u1ea3m \u01a1n\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

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