\u0110\u00f4i khi, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1eadp ng\u1eebng ho\u1eb7c h\u1ea1 t\u00f4ng gi\u1ecdng khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc v\u1ec1 ng\u1eef ph\u00e1p ho\u1eb7c t\u1eeb v\u1ef1ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng ti\u1ebfng Vi\u1ec7t, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1ecbp \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe kh\u00f3 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Do \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i, d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c t\u1eeb, c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb trong nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng l\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u00eam th\u1eddi gian suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec s\u1eafp n\u00f3i. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n: “uh”, “You know” (B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea5y), “To be honest” (M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c l\u00f2ng), “Actually” (Th\u1ef1c ra). D\u00f9 v\u1eady, h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng ch\u00fang, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb n\u00e0y cho m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ngo\u00e0i ra, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1eef nh\u1ecbp \u0111\u1ed9 v\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i, \u0111\u1eebng nhanh hay ch\u1eadm qu\u00e1. N\u1ebfu n\u00f3i nhanh, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t ra \u0111\u00fang \u00fd, c\u00f2n n\u00f3i ch\u1eadm s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe kh\u00f3 t\u1eadp trung.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. \u0110\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Do r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n hay kh\u00f4ng. \u0110\u1ec3 kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe. Nh\u1eb1m tr\u00e1nh th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u00f4 l\u1ed7 khi h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o n\u00f3i m\u00ecnh \u0111ang h\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfng Anh v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o \u0111\u00e3 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u1ea1n n\u00ean luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ngo\u1ea1i qu\u1ed1c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 s\u1eeda cho b\u1ea1n khi n\u00f3i sai. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 m\u1eabu c\u00e2u h\u1eefu d\u1ee5ng cho b\u1ea1n khi h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe:<\/p>\n\n\n\n – “I want to make sure you got that. Would you mind repeating it?”. (T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng?<\/em>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n – “I\u2019m not sure if I said that right. Can you please repeat it?”. (T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc n\u00f3i v\u1eady c\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vui l\u00f2ng l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng?<\/em>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n – “Can you please run that by me, so I know you got it?”. (B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vui l\u00f2ng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u n\u00f3 hay ch\u01b0a?<\/em>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n – “I\u2019d like to be sure I\u2019m expressing myself clearly. Could you please tell me what I\u2019ve just said, so I know we\u2019re on the same page?”. (T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111ang th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vui l\u00f2ng cho t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i v\u1eeba n\u00f3i v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang hi\u1ec3u \u00fd nhau hay kh\u00f4ng?<\/em>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n 3. H\u1ecfi l\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110\u00f4i khi, cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i tho\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nghe hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ebft ph\u1ea7n n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m tra th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p duy nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh d\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nghe \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd ki\u1ec3m tra xem b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang hay ch\u01b0a. H\u00e3y th\u1eed c\u00e1c m\u1eabu c\u00e2u sau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n – “I want to make sure I got that right…”. (T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang<\/em>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n – “So let me get this straight… “. (\u0110\u1ec3 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y<\/em>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n – “You mean…”. (\u00dd b\u1ea1n l\u00e0<\/em>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n – “If I\u2019m understanding you correctly…”. (N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c<\/em>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n 4. Ki\u1ec3m tra l\u1ea1i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u, nh\u01b0ng c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c. C\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n ng\u1ed3i, n\u1eafm tay ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 ch\u1edbp m\u1eaft, \u00e1nh nh\u00ecn… c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, khi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n m\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0103n tr\u01b0a nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i khoanh tay v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c “li\u1ec7u m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfng Anh nh\u01b0 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 chu\u1ea9n hay kh\u00f4ng?”, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. V\u00ec v\u1eady, quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 quy t\u1eafc v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ghi nh\u1edb:<\/p>\n\n\n\n – Tr\u00e1nh ch\u1ec9, tr\u1ecf ng\u00f3n tay. G\u1eadp t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ng\u00f3n tay, ch\u1ec9 gi\u01a1 ng\u00f3n gi\u1eefa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m. Ngo\u00e0i ra, khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 tay v\u00e0o m\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u00e3y t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng c\u1eed \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u00e0n tay \u0111\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, n\u1eafm m\u1ed9t tay v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eadp v\u00e0o tay c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m, c\u00f2n khoanh tay tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n – B\u1eaft ch\u00e9o ch\u00e2n c\u0169ng mang ngh\u0129a kh\u00e1c nhau. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft ch\u00e9o ch\u00e2n v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u1eafng nghe h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu xoay h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00e1c, c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 n\u00e0y n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n VNEXPRESS<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Trung t\u00e2m D\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 v\u00e0 Ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng, Vi\u1ec7n Ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c, Tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Tr\u00e0 Vinh<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110\u1ecba ch\u1ec9: 126 Nguy\u1ec5n Thi\u1ec7n Th\u00e0nh, Ph\u01b0\u1eddng 5, TPTV, Tr\u00e0 Vinh. (Ph\u00f2ng B11.104 \u2013 t\u00f2a nh\u00e0 B1)<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i: 0294 3 855 959.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u0110\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5t t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u sai \u00fd b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y gi\u1eef nh\u1ecbp \u0111\u1ed9 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh khi n\u00f3i, \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i h\u1ecfi l\u1ea1i xem m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":15166,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[797],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdi.edu.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15164"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdi.edu.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdi.edu.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdi.edu.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdi.edu.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15164"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/rdi.edu.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15164\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17519,"href":"https:\/\/rdi.edu.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15164\/revisions\/17519"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdi.edu.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15166"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdi.edu.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15164"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdi.edu.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15164"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdi.edu.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15164"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/rdi.edu.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/live-collaboration-concept-illustration_114360-2514.jpg\")